When two people meet and become suddenly attracted to each other, it is easy to conclude that it is love, and that they are in love. This is probably why the saying: ‘love at first sight’ still holds sway in our world. And it is so real, as every day, people constantly meet and fall in love at first sight. But although ‘love’ may mean a lot of things to a lot of people, there should be a general acceptance of what love itself is, and should be. Yes, it can be a challenge to tell things apart when you are so attracted to this other person. The very bond that connects the both of you to each other is enough to be called love. But this is not always the case. Infatuation is a very intense but short-lived passion for someone. It happens very fast and is sometimes irrational, but because of its intensity, it is often always confused with love—real love. And, it is also strong enough to bind two people together.
If you are patient and kind to your partner, if you if you are not selfish or irritable towards this person, if you are not jealous of this person’s successes, if you do not keep a record of wrongs, if you respect, trust and admire this person, if you accept this person for who he or she truly is-shortcomings and all, if you care, protect and shelter this person, if you are always willing and ready to take the blow for this person, if you put this person before yourself, if you cry when he or she cries and laugh when he or she laughs, if you see yourself in this person, then, be assure, this is love you are feeling. You both should feel a tender affection for each other, as when this happens, your relationship will hardly be based on money, sex and its likes. It will be based on you two. <3
constantly stuck between “life is good” and “can i die now”